{"id":1489,"date":"2015-12-20T08:54:59","date_gmt":"2015-12-20T16:54:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/re-tales.net\/?p=1489"},"modified":"2015-12-20T08:54:59","modified_gmt":"2015-12-20T16:54:59","slug":"sunday-soapbox-perceptions-vary","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/re-tales.net\/?p=1489","title":{"rendered":"Sunday Soapbox&#8211;Perceptions Vary"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/www.emptyhousefullmind.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/twosides.jpg.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"405\" height=\"273\" \/><\/p>\n<p>In my new position I work in multiple stores and I often find myself being approached by both managers and clerks to vent or air their opinions about their job and store. \u00a0I usually try to stay neutral because it&#8217;s really none of my business but I&#8217;m always willing to listen because I know there&#8217;s a need to vent in our company.<\/p>\n<p>The other day a clerk who was not happy with her manager made a comment to the effect of &#8220;I&#8217;m the only one that does any work around here.&#8221; \u00a0This employee may be one of the best employees in the store and indeed do a lot of things, but they are definitely not the only one working hard. \u00a0One thing I&#8217;ve discovered over the years is that <em>EVERY employee in the store thinks they are doing a great job<\/em>, even the ones that are close to getting fired. \u00a0 <strong>Perceptions vary quite a bit.<\/strong> \u00a0 If you&#8217;re a manager, it&#8217;s important to understand that, because unless you can convince the employee that they are NOT doing a great job, they aren&#8217;t going to hear anything you have to say and will not change the behavior that is a problem for you.<\/p>\n<p>So managers, remember to focus on your employees behavior, not their personality (they&#8217;re not &#8220;lazy&#8221;, &#8220;stupid&#8221; or worst of all don&#8217;t say they &#8220;have a bad attitude&#8221;) and be prepared with examples and facts that support your assessment. \u00a0And clerks, keep in mind that unfortunately it&#8217;s not your opinion of your performance that ultimately matters, it&#8217;s your boss&#8217;s, and while you may do a lot of things right, there&#8217;s always something you can do better. \u00a0 In a nutshell, there&#8217;s 2 sides to every story. \u00a0 That is all.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In my new position I work in multiple stores and I often find myself being approached by both managers and clerks to vent or air their opinions about their job and store. \u00a0I usually try to stay neutral because it&#8217;s really none of my business but I&#8217;m always willing to listen because I know there&#8217;s <a class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/re-tales.net\/?p=1489\">Read More&#8230;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10,9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1489","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-managers-and-bosses","category-retail-employees"],"post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/re-tales.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1489","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/re-tales.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/re-tales.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/re-tales.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/re-tales.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1489"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/re-tales.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1489\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1490,"href":"https:\/\/re-tales.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1489\/revisions\/1490"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/re-tales.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1489"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/re-tales.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1489"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/re-tales.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1489"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}